Help, care, community, and deconstruction
Resources
Resources for Women
Search for local shelter, advocacy, legal support, reproductive health care, abortion care, and other practical help.
DomesticShelters.org
Search by ZIP code or city for domestic-violence shelters, programs, advocates, counseling, and other local services.
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WomensLaw.org
Choose your state to find shelters, advocates, local programs, referrals, and legal information for survivors of abuse.
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Planned Parenthood Health Center Finder
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Bedsider Clinic Finder
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AbortionFinder.org
Search verified abortion providers and find funding, travel, legal, medical, and logistical support.
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I Need An A
Find clinics, pill-by-mail options, current laws, abortion funds, and support organizations based on your location.
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211
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Rainbow Community Resources
Find local LGBTQIA+ community, housing and homelessness resources, affirming health care, and trans-specific support.
LGBT Near Me
Enter your ZIP code to search thousands of LGBTQ+ community resources, including centers, doctors, lawyers, youth support, social groups, and more.
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CenterLink
Find LGBTQ+ community centers that can connect people with local services, support, programming, and referrals.
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True Colors United
Resources focused on LGBTQ+ youth and young adults experiencing or at risk of homelessness.
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Trans Lifeline Resource Library
Search trans-specific resources for relocation assistance, mutual aid, jobs, health care, legal transition, peer support, and more.
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OutCare OutList
Search for LGBTQ+ and trans/gender-diverse affirming health-care providers by location, state, specialty, and telehealth availability.
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HUD Find Shelter
Search nationwide for shelters, food pantries, health clinics, clothing, and homelessness services in your community.
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Bad Bible Hub
Check out Bad Bible Hub, join the Bad Bible Friends Discord for community, and while you’re there, read the LIPs — the List of Irreconcilable Passages.
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Deconstruction resources, biblical criticism, and more from Bad Bible Hub.
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Join Bad Bible Friends Discord
A community for people unraveling religious beliefs and finding connection after Christianity.
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Read the LIPs
The LIPs, or List of Irreconcilable Passages, collect some of the Bible’s most horrific and morally disturbing passages — the ones that raise serious questions about claims that the Bible reflects a perfectly good and loving God.
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Study & Research
Tools for digging into biblical languages, Jewish texts, other religious scriptures, early Christianity, and the ancient Near Eastern world.
Blue Letter Bible
Read and compare Bible translations and dig into Hebrew and Greek with interlinear, lexicon, concordance, and original-language tools.
Study the Bible and original languages
STEP Bible
A powerful Bible study tool from Tyndale House for comparing translations, Hebrew and Greek, lexical information, manuscripts, and textual variants.
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Sefaria
Search the Hebrew Bible alongside Jewish texts including the Mishnah, Talmud, Midrash, Rashi, other commentaries, and reference works.
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Quran.com
Read and search the Qur’an with Arabic text, multiple translations, tafsir, word-by-word tools, recitations, and study features.
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Book of Mormon
The official online text from The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, with the full Book of Mormon and its reference materials.
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Ethiopian Orthodox Canonical Books
The Ethiopian Orthodox Tewahedo Church’s own overview of its biblical canon, including the books that make up its broader Old and New Testament traditions.
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The Bart Ehrman Blog
Accessible, non-sectarian scholarship on the New Testament, historical Jesus, manuscripts, early Christianity, canon, women in early Christianity, and related topics.
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Digital Hammurabi
Dr. Joshua Bowen and Megan Lewis make the ancient Near East, Hebrew Bible, Mesopotamian texts, ancient languages, and cultural context accessible to non-specialists.
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Mental Health
Secular therapy, recovery from high-control religion, and organizations supporting life outside religion.
Secular Therapy Project
Search for secular therapists who use evidence-based methods without supernatural or religious elements.
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Psychology Today: Secular & Nonreligious
A therapist directory filtered specifically for secular and nonreligious counseling.
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Cult Education Institute
A large archive on destructive groups plus recovery-and-support links, therapist resources, and other help for former members.
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Freedom of Mind Resource Center
Education and professional support for people leaving destructive cults, controlling relationships, and unhealthy group dynamics.
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Freedom From Religion Foundation
National education, advocacy, and resources focused on nontheism and separation of church and state.
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Recommended Reading
Kalu’s poetry on deconstruction
Kalu
A collection of poems about religious deconstruction, written from inside the experience of questioning, dismantling, and finding language for what comes after. CrystalJae recommends it as an especially powerful piece of deconstruction writing.
View on Amazon
Crucifying the Bible: Using the Bible to Disprove the Bible
Deborah Grace
Deborah Grace examines biblical contradictions by comparing Old Testament foundations with New Testament claims and testing scripture against itself, tracing how close study of the Bible challenged decades of unquestioned faith.
View on Amazon
Christ Before Jesus: Evidence for the Second-Century Origins of Jesus
Matthew Britt & Jaaron Wingo
Matthew Britt and Jaaron Wingo use data analysis, textual chronology, and historical investigation to argue for a later origin of New Testament writings and to challenge traditional timelines for Jesus and early Christianity.
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Unconvinced: How Belief Is Not a Choice and Why That Changes Everything
Jon Cohen
Jon Cohen draws on philosophy, psychology, neuroscience, and theology to argue that belief is not a voluntary choice and asks what that means for religions that reward or punish people for what they believe.
View on Amazon
Other Reading
To Catch a Killer
Sheryl Scarborough
Teen forensic-science enthusiast Erin Blake investigates a new murder she suspects is connected to her mother’s long-unsolved killing, using science, stubbornness, and her friends to chase the truth.
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To Right the Wrongs
Sheryl Scarborough
In the sequel, Erin and her friends take on another cold case when her boyfriend questions whether his father was wrongly convicted of murder, pulling them into another dangerous investigation.
View on Amazon
Recommended Viewing
Creators CrystalJae recommends in the deconstruction space.
Think Beyond Dogma
Thinker is one of the most biblically educated women I know. She has studied biblical Hebrew, studies the Bible daily, and brings that knowledge into thoughtful, fascinating conversations about scripture, faith, and deconstruction.
Open channel
Bored Agnostic
Bored Agnostic brings philosophy down from the ivory tower and makes it understandable. She offers a fresh perspective, asks great questions, and helps people learn how to think critically without making philosophy feel inaccessible.
Open channel
Leaving Faith
Sarah is a breath of fresh air in the deconstruction space. She talks openly about hell, fear, and the idea that nobody deserves eternal punishment, while asking the bigger question: What does it say about a God who would create such a place?
Open channel
JoelReadsBible
Joel is my dear friend, one of Mezzo’s best friends, and his Star-Crossed buddy. Joel reads Bible so you don’t have to, taking it a chapter at a time with ridiculous voices, funny commentary, and a way of making the Bible genuinely enjoyable to listen to.
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Mezzo
Science, philosophy, humor, and music from Joel’s Star-Crossed buddy and one of CrystalJae’s dear friends in the deconstruction space.
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